Funerals & Memorial Services

Funerals and memorial services at the American Church in Berlin are offered for anyone seeking a Christian service of remembrance, regardless of church membership. Each service is crafted with care, grounding the gathering in Scripture, prayer, and the hope of the resurrection while honoring the unique life of the person who has died. Whether simple or elaborate, we accompany families with compassion and help create a service that reflects both their grief and their trust in God’s promise of new life.

A funeral or celebration of life at the American Church in Berlin is a service rooted in Christian hope: we gather to name our grief honestly, to commend our loved one into God’s merciful hands, and to proclaim the promise of the resurrection. In the our tradition, funerals are worship services centered in Word and Sacrament, and while Holy Communion is warmly encouraged, it is not required. For many families, receiving Holy Communion at a funeral is a profound comfort because it draws us directly into the mystery of Christ’s presence—uniting the gathered community not only with one another but also with all the saints who have gone before us. In that quiet, sacred moment at the table, grief meets grace: we taste the promise that death does not have the final word, and we are reminded that nothing, not even our sorrow, can separate us from the love of God in Christ. At the same time, others may prefer a simpler liturgy without Communion for personal, practical, or ecumenical reasons, and this choice is honored just as fully; the heart of the service remains the same—God’s comfort spoken through Scripture, prayer, and the assurance of resurrection hope.

 

Our services are conducted in English and follow the familiar liturgical pattern of the wider church that holds the community in prayer, song, and Scripture. The pastor works closely with the family to shape the service—helping select hymns, Scripture readings, and prayers that reflect both the faith of the church and the unique story of the one who has died. In the days before and after the service, the pastor is also available for pastoral conversation and grief counseling, walking with individuals and families as they navigate loss with honesty, compassion, and hope.

The Rev. Ryan D. Birkman

The Rev. Ryan D. Birkman

pastor
Pastor.Ryan@americanchurchberlin.de